The concept of Yoni, symbolizing the sacred feminine, expands across cultures and centuries. The word Yoni is a Sanskrit word that translates to “sacred space”. Beyond its literal translation as the female reproductive organs, Yoni represents the very source and abode of existence. Today, we invite you to join us to explore the ancient concept of Yoni. Not only discover the historical significance of Yoni but also delve into how women can benefit from this concept in today’s modern world, specifically through the transformative practice of Yoni massage.

A Historical background – Ancient Roots of Yoni:

A long time ago, during a period called the Vedic era, people treated the Yoni as something truly special. In the Zhob valley, there are sculptures showing that Yoni was seen as a symbol of fertility even in ancient times. This symbol is found in many cultures and is connected to important truths about women’s natural cycles.

Before the Vedic era, around 4000 BCE, statues from the same valley featured not just big breasts but also the Yon. These early symbols, initially representing fertility, later evolved into profound spiritual icons.

According to David Lemming, people have been worshiping Yoni since a time before the Vedic period, from 4000 BCE to 1000 BCE.

The respect for Yoni surpassed mere symbolism; it was considered a sacred symbol across various cultures, not just in India. While certain Western cultures shied away from discussing women’s private parts, Yoni was accepted in Indic religions and other old cultures as a deep truth connected to the natural cycles of women.

How Yoni Massage Works

Yoni massages are a tantric practice, that works with the different reflexology points within the vaginal canal that are connected to the entire body. It is a holistic type of massage that works internally and externally. Tantric yoni massage is considered one of the most powerful sacred sexuality practices for women.

It can help you release tension and sexual trauma stored in your body, especially the pelvic area. It also helps you regain the sexual energy you need for the best sex life. This type of sensual massage is a great way to explore sexual pleasure, as it opens you up to different types of orgasms. It also helps you increase intimacy with your partner and heal any sexual problems you have with your own body like shame or low sexual desire.

Unlike what some people might think, Yoni massages are not just about reaching a climax. They aim to release tension and create a deeper connection. These massages are done carefully, similar to a regular massage, to make a safe and relaxed space. This encourages emotional release and a spiritual connection with the body. 

Tension stored in the body especially the womb and inner thighs, caused by emotional burdens or unaddressed feelings, can greatly affect a woman’s overall well-being. Yoni massage is seen as a holistic healing tool that helps women in their womb healing journey.

Realizing the importance of this sacred part of your body can help you let go of emotional weight and reconnect with your femininity. It goes beyond just physical release, addressing emotional and energetic aspects, releasing built-up tension, and embracing emotional and mental well-being.

Before starting a Yoni massage, it’s important to take a comfortable position and start by doing deep-breathing exercises. It’s a personal journey that focuses on emotional wellness and requires open communication. Lubrication might be used, and the massage involves a gentle exploration, gradually addressing deeper layers.

Practical Steps for a Relaxing Yoni Massage: How to do it: 

1. Know the Purpose: Yoni massage is not only about a physical experience; it’s a transformative practice. Understand that Yoni massage is about more than just physical sexuality; it’s about easing tension and making you feel better emotionally.
   
   
2. Solo or with a Partner: Yoni massage can be done alone or with a partner. It involves massaging inside the vaginal walls to release tension. It’s about massaging inside, not outside!  Whether you’re doing it alone or with a partner remember to relax and have a great time.
   
   
3. Create a Cozy Space: Set up a comfortable and safe space with calming music, aromatherapy, nice smells, and a relaxed atmosphere. Remind yourself to relax, relax your shoulders, relax your jawline, and take deep breaths. Create a space that you enjoy and feel safe in. 
   
   
4. Communication: Talk with yourself About It: Communicate with your thoughts before starting. Affirm to your mind that this is for your own well-being, it’s not about meeting any expectations. And most importantly there’s NO pressure to do anything. Remember, this is a very personal experience. It’s about you for you.
   
   
5. Lube Up: Use lubrication if needed. It helps make the massage more comfortable and enjoyable. Sometimes things are a bit dry, you can use essential oils as they make the massage smoother. Be sure to use high-quality natural oils like coconut oil, sweet almond oil, and jojoba oil because they are considered safer for intimate use. And if you are using an oil for the first time, it’s a good idea to do a batch test on a small area of your skin before using the oil for the full massage.
   
   
6. Go Slow: Feel, Don’t Just Finish: start with gentle pressure and gradually explore deeper. Moving the hands in a circular motion. Go deeper gradually. If you find any tight spots, focus on it, and keep it gentle. Pay attention to tension points and take your time with messaging these areas. Focus on connecting and feeling, not just the sexual experience. It’s about letting go of tension and connecting more deeply with your body.
   
   
7. Release and Cry It Out: Release Emotional Baggage: When you have a Yoni massage. As tension is released, you may cry or experience emotional release. Sometimes, the emotional tension you’ll feel in your core can make you cry. That’s okay; keep massaging gently in those areas. Understand that women might carry emotional baggage in their wombs. Which is why A Yoni massage can help you in your womb healing journey as it helps you let go of those negative feelings.
   
   This special experience brings you closer to yourself and others, making your connections more meaningful, including better experiences in the bedroom. The womb, which often holds onto years of emotional stress, turns into a more open space, making your life more balanced and free.
   
   
8. It’s More Than Physical: the goal of Yoni massage isn’t just to release physical tension; it takes care of your whole self, linking your body, mind, and soul. It helps you build a strong connection with yourself, easing tension from emotional problems.
   
   Remember, this massage isn’t just about your body. It has a spiritual and emotional side too. Releasing tension is not just physical but also a spiritual and emotional release. Make it a fun, connecting, and healing experience. This holistic approach can bring more love into your relationship and help you connect with your feelings in a special way. Doing this regularly can help you release negative energy, lift your mood, and strengthen your bond with yourself. 

By seeing Yoni massage as a way to take care of yourself and let go of emotions, you move beyond just the physical benefits. It’s not only about reaching a climax; it’s a spiritual experience to connect, feel, and release. Bringing this healing practice into your life adds a meaningful layer, making a blend of pleasure and emotional well-being that feels just right.

In conclusion, whether you choose to explore yoni massage on your own or you decide to visit a tantric massage practitioner, it’s important to remember that this Hindu tradition is a spiritual practice so approach it with an open mind.

Yoni massage stands as a powerful tool for women to reclaim their inner power and better understand their feminine nature. It offers a unique journey of self-discovery, emotional release, and deeper intimacy. As advocates for women’s emotional and mental well-being, ILIK is here to guide and support you on this transformative path.

Join the Conversation: 

Ladies, have you explored Yoni massage? Share your experiences, tips, or questions in the comments below. Let’s create a safe and empowering space for all women to share their stories.